Are We Getting Too Dependent On Our Gadgets?

When my exams had ended, and I reached back home, I was glad. I got my phone back after weeks, and truthfully saying, I had missed it.

But then, the balance in my mobile’s prepaid card got exhausted and I couldn’t find another internet connection. As my academic session was over, I didn’t even want to study. I tried, but I couldn’t, and then, I didn’t have the slightest idea on what to do. You see, I was so engrossed in my gadget that I couldn’t even think about what other hubbub I could do.

It is not only about me, but about the generation which I belong to. Once I was sitting with a group of friends and we all checked our phones 4 times out of 5. It makes me wonder, are we or this generation is getting too dependent on our gadgets? Clicking pictures, posting statuses and getting ‘Likes’- has that become our life?

With my personal experiences being on our gadgets, or on social networking sites all the time, we tend to create a virtual relationship between us and our friends rather than a real one. We can’t gather up that much courage to go and say ‘hello!’ to the person with whom we just ‘chatted’. At the end, is that what we want? What will happen if all the phones disappear and we are not left with any gadget- like these? Will this generation be able to survive?

Some months ago, there was a picture posted on facebook stating that, ‘If I lose my mum in the supermarket, it is still alright. But, if I lose my cell, then I am dead’! Basically, it does not matter to you that your mom gets lost, but it does when your phone gets lost? And, I admit that in a way it is true.

People keep chatting all day and I guarantee this that if they ever sit in front of their family, they won’t have a lot of things to say.

Is being on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter or Whatsapp so important than spending some time with your family, real friends? Meeting them and hanging out with them and having an amusing conversation?

Albert Einstein once quoted “I fear the day technology will surpass the human interaction. The world will have a generation of idiots.”

So for 2 minutes take your eyes away from that technological thing, and think, ‘Will you let the technology control you, or YOU will control the technology.’

DON’T BECOME A SLAVE OF YOUR GADGET.

RAPE

What comes to your mind when you see or hear this word? ‘RAPE’?

I’m sure no one is proud of it. And if somebody is, get them to speak in front of a crowd and announce that they raped someone. I bet they can’t. And to an extreme extent if they can they are psychos.

Let me tell you the definition of RAPE- A forceful and a sexual act attempted on a person (child, teenagers, woman/man, elderly) without their consent.

It is not just one country. It is every country. People are afraid to leave their children alone with someone, not only them- their wives, their parents!

Can you believe that rape attempts generally are attempted on people in the age group of 3 – 90?

And somewhere it might be true.

You know there was an incident on December 2012 at a city, where a girl was brutally raped.  And she succumbed to her injuries. Died basically.

Not that, rapes happen where people get mad, and there was news once, that they basically just stretched her legs so much that her vagina got stretched excessively and dumped her body.

Another one, for fun some people put cigarettes in a girl’s vagina. Burning ones. Can you believe it? Out of the ones reading it, might be funny to you, but with those who are victims to it, think about them.

They would be embarrassed for a year or for a lifetime. They might not be able to trust anybody else again. Or they might never be able to leave their own house by themselves. They would get flashbacks of that day or time.

To those who do it, what do you think of yourself? You’re great if you do this brutal crime? What about your mother and sister, if she went through this phase? You might be agitated, angry, in a fun mood, But don’t let them harm others. It is what you are going through, why make the other person suffer?

You probably will be the boldest/best person in your group. But in reality, you have done a heinous crime!

People need to grow up.

Some of them need to leave that thought in which Man rules the world or Man is greater/better than a woman. Because, everyone/everybody is equal.

You have to be PROUD of yourself ,when you do good deeds. You have to make your country PROUD.

Be Proud. Make Proud. Rise Proud. Raise proud.

This video is of a rape victim, who got the COURAGE to speak. Salute!

Source: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-BcFdw25WHI

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Homosexuality

This topic is social issue and some people may support it while some people may not. I'll give you the two sides to it. Those who support it and those who do not. With 'Why'!

Homosexuality is romantic attraction, sexual behavior between members of the same sex or gender.

 Why People Oppose It?
1. They think that its not a true bonding/marriage.

  

2. It violates their natural law, like only man and woman are meant to be together.

3. It denies a child from a father or a mother.
4. It doesn't create a family but naturally sterile union.

5. It imposes its acceptance all over the society.
6. It offends GOD.
Source: (http://www.tfpstudentaction.org/politically-incorrect/homosexuality/10-reasons-why-homosexual-marriage-is-harmful-and-must-be-opposed.html)
7. Not all gay people support gay marriages.

8. Civil patnerships are there so is change just about terminology? 

There are some who argue that the difference between marriage and civil partnerships is primarily a semantic one. "We've got marriage, it's called a civil partnership and I rejoice in the fact that people like me who are different from straight people can do something they can't. I relish that," Pierce said last year.

 

Source: http://www.bbc.com/news/magazine-26634214

Why People Support It?

1.Discrimination frays the human spirit.

2.Making committed human connections is good for physical and mental health.

3.Forming families, traditional or not, is good for the soul.

4. Marriage is a basic human right and an individual personal choice and the State should not interfere with same-gender couples who choose to marry.

5. Homosexuality is a normal variant of adult sexuality; gay men and lesbians possess the same potential and desire for sustained loving and lasting relationships as heterosexuals, including loving and parenting children. This is supported by hard data, not just opinion.

6. Discriminatory marriage laws deprive gay and lesbian couples of over 1000 federal rights and benefits

7. Deprivation of these benefits has demonstrable negative psychological and social impact on same sex couples, their children and families.

8. Change and adaptation make for a stronger and psychologically richer society

9. Same sex couples can teach heterosexual couples how couples in relationships gender based power dynamics often solve problems and make decisions with more respect and mutuality.

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10. Ending discrimination enhances the human spirit and makes all our lives better. 

Source: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/psychoanalytic-excavation/201205/ten-reasons-support-gay-marriage

Gay Marriage

Lesbian Marriage




My Personal Opinion
I may not be some homosexual but I support them. Why aren't they allowed to live their lives themselves? I mean they might even not be interfering in your business? And if they are then please accept them. It is their life, they want to live it the way they want. You are thinking about kids? Well what if they don't want kids? What if they adopt?
I mean please to all the people out there opposing gay marriages, Live and Let Live Peacefully.
And let it end well.